Fear and Respect

“Fear is the quintessential human emotion. Some people live lives devoid of joy, happiness, and pleasure, but no one escapes the experience of fear and fear’s companion, pain. We are born in fear and pain. Our lives are profoundly shaped by them, as well as our efforts to avoid them.” Fear, experienced by every being of the human species, is an utterly unavoidable emotion. The extent and range of fears varies from person to person, but the emotion is the same. One person’s reaction of seeing a snake will be similar to another person’s reaction of walking into a train station. The body is programmed to react in a distinct fashion once the stimulus is recognized. Terror is the main cause that makes body to tremble with fear. The skin becomes pale, sweat breaks out, and the hair bristles. The secretions of the alimentary canal and of the kidneys are increased, and they are involuntarily voided… The breathing is hurried. The heart beats quickly, wildly, and violently; but whether it pumps the blood more efficiently through the body may be doubted, for the surface seems bloodless and the strength of the muscles soon fails… The mental faculties are much disturbed. Hence, Fear is the one thing that every people don’t like to experience in their life. And Respect is a positive feeling of esteem or deference for a person or other entity (such as a nation or a religion), and also specific actions and conduct representative of that esteem. In our life we always have fear of something that maybe while doing work, going far away from home, giving the examination. All people have an instinctual response to potential danger, which is in fact important to the survival of all species. The reactions elicited from fear are seen through advantages in evolution. Fear can be a manipulating and controlling factor in an individual's life. Respect is both given and received. We expect other people to respect us in return for the respect we show them. Respect is something that is earned by the standards of the particular society in which one lives. Respect cannot be measured as a quantity, cannot be bought or traded, it is one of those things that is earned and built over time, but that can be lost with one stupid or inconsiderate act. . One can never ask or beg for respect, but only others can bestow us with respect as a result of their perceived treatment by us. Respect cannot always be seen or observed by actions, but for those who practice chivalry.

Hence, respect is something that people carry with them; also it can never be bought or sold. People should always try to respect other who contributes for the best of the society. Therefore people should always try t0o overcome their fear and walk confidently in each and every situations of life. As we know that there is fear everywhere but also there are measures to overcome the fear and respect is also what exists in the life. So, people should try to have a respectful life by contributing for a society and try to minimize the fearful life.

Arrogance and confidence

The confidence is defined as freedom of doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities. Self-esteem is a confidence and satisfaction in oneself. Also confidence is generally described as a state of being certain that a hypothesis or a prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective.  And Arrogance is described as doing something with an ignorance and unwanted attitude. Its definition also follows in this manner as a having or showing off unwanted importance out of overbearing pride, making or having the disposition to make, exorbitant claims of rank or estimation.

Confidence and Arrogance sounds similar when we talk but thinking logically and undergoing the real concepts, we find vast difference between these two terms. So the confidence means to do anything in proper manner without giving up and taking sides and correction from other if we are in wrong position. A confident person always has a sense of learning and sharing the ideas to other. But Arrogance means to do work wit5h the attitude and having the feeling of right in any situations. An arrogant person always thinks that he/she is always correct, he/she is better than anyone else.

When it comes to the comparison between the confident person and arrogant person we can mark many differences. Confident person has always faith on the work he does and thinks that he may be right or sometime wrong too, but an arrogant person always skips some of the part of the work and feels that he/she is always correct and there is no need to correct in his work as arrogant person then self is god of him/her and tries to overcome their weakness with some pretends. Similarly, Confident and arrogant person can also be differentiated with the body gesture and language they use while having the conversation. Confident person always walk their head held up and have good attitude and respect other whereas arrogant people are always in their own world and have bad attitude to others and have habit of demotivating others.

Hence, it is sure that Confident people are talent and successful with self-respect whereas Arrogant people are also successful sometimes but are filled with problems in their life such as social problems, attitude problems. There is no doubt that the confident people are more successful than arrogant people as confident people are also in the concern to learn from other but arrogant are always limited with in their boundary of attitude and ignorance.

Roles I play Each DAy

My day starts with the cup of tea at 6 am  from my bed. Therefore, from the morning to night I play different roles in different places in different situations. Some of the days I had to play more number of roles but most of the days my day finishes with three roles of mine, which are:

1. Student

2. Friend

3. Son

The first role I had to plat daily except to the holidays is as a student. From the time I enter the college premises I get into the role of the student. I play this role to my lectures, tutors, coordinators, accounting managers, etc. at college. My behavior towards them is normally polite, gentle and silent. And their reaction to my behavior is also simple and common as they react to other students at the college. The thing that I try to achieve in this role is good response from teachers, a better educational skills advice and answers to my curiosity of the subject matter. Normally, I am at the classroom when I play this role and within the college premises.

The second role that I play with in the college and after college is a role of a friend. I play this role to my classmates, friends within my neighborhood, friends from my school days. Behavior of mine to them is always kind of naughty and funny guy and their reaction is same which is supporting my stupid acts and enjoying my jokes. Not totally but of course my friends also behave as I expect them to and the things that I try to achieve in this role are the attention of my friends and some excitement which may include sports too. I always enjoy this part of my day and I play this role within the college and also outside the college where we friends meet to share gossips.

Finally, the most important role I play each day is as a son. I play this role to my mom, dad and to society too. And my behavior is always like shouting and demanding money from my parents by quarreling. Sometimes, my behavior alters with the alternation of the situations at home. Sometime I am quite and disciplined but sometimes I am aggressive as if I am in war with my parents. Their reaction is also based on my activities: Advising on my goals, scolding in my mistakes and making me proud when I achieve my goals. Not all the times but they usually react as I expect from them. In this role I am always focusing on fulfilling my demands by asking for money and being a good son to my parents. Home is the venue for me to play this role. And among all of the roles that I play, I find  role of son bit easier and comfortable.